I wrote the following on Friday, February 5th, 2010.
I had a day that was similar to today, you know
"just one of those days"...
I thought it was only fitting to repost this here...
4 months later we had another one of "those days"...
February 5, 2010
So today was just one of those days. You know
So today was just one of those days. You know
the kind of days where your house is just a huge
mess all day and every single time you clean
something up there is a little person behind
you dumping out. Ya it was that kind of day...
Collin decided to pour his own orange juice
Collin decided to pour his own orange juice
would help out by dumping the carpet freshener
all over the carpet, all the while Madelyn is just
Ok so let's just eat dinner and take a bath, at
least I will be "cleaning" something. Rub a dub
dub everyone in the tub. Take Madelyn out and
while dressing her I hear splish splash and I know
that sound all too well. "Collin what are you doing"
Collin responds "oh just dumping the water out
of the tub". Got to love the honesty. Yes now my
kitchen and my bathroom have been "flooded"
by my almost 3 year old within an hour of each
other. Whew...
While cleaning the first "flood" I was explaining
to Collin that sometimes little boys have to wait
for their mommy's when they need a drink.
"Why mommy?". "Well because you are still too
little to pour drinks and it makes a big mess for
mommy to clean up so next time you will need
to wait for mommy, ok". As I was soaking and
wiping and spraying and cleaning I was
thinking that God must so often think the same
thing about me. I am sure He often tries to tell me
"you are making a mess, why don't you just
wait for me". I hear you Lord.
So it's now the end of the day and I can honestly
say that I am thankful for today's mess. I am
thankful that I have messes to clean up after.
While I may not always immediately go to that
thought at the moment that I first see the mess,
I am truly thankful for the mess. If there weren't
any messes to clean then it would mean there
weren't any children here . Oh sweet Jesus,
thank you for the messes. Thank you for teaching
me about you through the messes my children make.
I used to keep a very tidy house, you could stop by
anytime and everything would be right where it
should be, you wouldn't find much dust and there
would probably be lines in the carpet from the vacuum.
There would never be dirty dishes in the sink.
Things have definitely changed...
Now if you stop by there will most certainly be
crumbs in the carpet rather than lines. Most things
will be out of place and I will desperately be trying
to get them into place but you will find little hands
behind me dumping and destroying. And the dust,
oh the dust. You will definitely notice it as there
will be tiny handprints all over it. And the sink,
well it will probably be full of bottles and sticky
sippy cups. But this is life now and I love it.
I don't enjoy the mess but I LOVE why it is here.
The mess is here because there are two beautiful
miracles that live in my house. Those two little
miracles are constant reminders that life isn't
about clean houses and lines in the carpet. It isn't
about empty dishwashers and clean dishes.
See I started this journey as a mommy thinking
I would spend my days teaching my children
about life but rather I find that it is my children who
daily teach me what life is really all about...
There are not enough words to express the love
that my heart holds for my children but
God knows my heart.
Mommy love, there isn't anything like it!
So it was one of those days. A day full of messes
that this mommy feels privileged to have cleaned up! :)
And here we are 4 months later and again having
one of "those days". After fretting over it for
a bit I did what made the most sense....
I turned up the music and we had a
dance party in the kitchen....
dance party in the kitchen....
And then I called for back-up! :) Collin had been
asking to go to GG's throughout the day but I really
needed to get some cleaning done so we called GG
and asked her to come to our house! She was thrilled.
We ate dinner and made a quick trip to Target.
GG insisted on buying both of the kids something.
I fought her telling her over and over again that it was unnecessary. I finally gave in when she looked
me in the eye and said "you will never know how
much pleasure it brings me to buy things for
these kids"....
much pleasure it brings me to buy things for
these kids"....
Dance parties in the kitchen (even if it is a bit messy) are the best!!
ReplyDeleteGood for you for turning one of those kind of days into a great kind of day!
Enjoy the day
i loved that post the first time i read it and i love it just as much now... what a good mommy you are to leave the mess and have a dancing play dough moment... that is the hardest part, making the choice to leave the mess and play.. we should all do that more often. :)
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